Rule of thumb for rough-and-ready practice is attested from the 1690s, with the thumb as a natural unit. No English or American statute, case, or treatise ever established a thumb-thickness standard for wife-beating; the 1782 Buller caricature is the earliest known source of the association, and it was satire. Christina Hoff Sommers publicized the debunking in the 1990s, and legal historians have confirmed no such rule existed.
The claim circulated in feminist texts of the 1970s and 80s as an example of law's historical cruelty, and its debunking was then weaponized by the opposite camp as proof that feminists invent history. Both camps had a point to make; the phrase itself had neither. Domestic cruelty was real and under-prosecuted, but this phrase was never its legal basis.
The archive's verdict on the pattern: a false etymology can carry a true charge, which is why false etymologies survive debunking. The cure is not silence but labeling, say what is documented, say what is believed, say what is merely useful to believe.
A myth about a law became more famous than any law. When we repeat a debunked origin to make a real point, what are we actually saying?